It was the summer time of 2013, and Laurie Segall, a 27-year-old tech correspondent for CNN, was being given a tour of a intercourse dungeon designed particularly for Silicon Valley tech geeks.
Madame Rose, a dominatrix from Oakland, Calif., took Segall on a tour of the non-public membership — adorned with intercourse swings, leather-based restraints, silver chains and at the least one machine designed to present low-grade electrical shocks.
However these contraptions, regardless of appearances, weren’t typical BDSM toys.
“Every part in right here is high-tech,” defined Rose, as Segall recollects in her new memoir, “Special Characters: My Adventures with Tech’s Titans and Misfits” (Dey Road Books).
The gasoline masks, for example, got here with Apple earbuds, designed by certainly one of her “tech shoppers.” A big iron cage was “constructed in good proportion to the jail cells in Alcatraz by an MIT engineer,” Rose added.
Segall couldn’t assist however surprise if any of the engineers she’d interviewed or met at numerous tech conferences had spent any time in that cage. As if studying her thoughts, Rose instructed her: “The place do you suppose all of the Apple engineers get their artistic inspiration? I lock them up for the weekend.”
For Segall, who’d been overlaying the tech business for CNN since 2008 — again when scrappy younger pioneers promising to alter the world with apps had been nonetheless broadly ignored by mainstream media — the assembly with Madame Rose gave her a brand new perspective.
“Maybe part of me felt a sure delight, imagining the over-confident bros of Silicon Valley getting locked up,” Segall writes. The tech world was more and more pushed by “extra and chance, defying norms, energy and management — I might really feel all of it hanging within the air, alongside whips and chains. I questioned out loud in regards to the connection between energy, management and intercourse.”
Madame Rose simply laughed and crossed her legs. “Oh, honey,” she stated. “In the event you solely knew.”
When Segall first joined the cable information large — the Atlanta native moved to New York Metropolis by the use of the College of Michigan — she hoped to make her mark by overlaying the identical tech entrepreneurs “I used to be assembly in dive bars and tech meetups,” she writes. “I needed to put in writing in regards to the individuals nobody else was taking note of, those the world had but to note.”
She ended up touchdown unique interviews with lots of the greatest innovators in tech earlier than they turned family names, everybody from Mark Zuckerberg (Fb) and Jack Dorsey (Twitter) to Kevin Systrom (Instagram) and Travis Kalanick (Uber).
She was given entry not simply because she was among the many first to take them critically — Segall was recurrently briefing CNN anchors on rising tech tendencies, prepping them with suggestions like, “Sure, ‘tweeting’ is the right time period” — however as a result of she ran of their similar circles, consuming and socializing with the long run tech titans, and in some instances, courting them.
The events had been her “secret weapon,” Segall writes, as a result of the “gossip flowed as freely because the drinks.” At one fancy gathering overlooking Central Park, she overheard a drunken enterprise capitalist mumbling, “Tweetdeck is promoting to Twitter for $40 million.” By consuming until daybreak with the dealmakers themselves. she typically ended being the primary to report on such offers.
However as she received deeper into the tech revolution, Segall found that it wasn’t all about reinventing tradition and bringing individuals nearer collectively. A lot of recent tech was about intercourse and experimentation and pushing the boundaries of what’s thought of wholesome sexuality.
Or, as Madame Rose requested Segall: “Wish to see the nipple clamps?”
In late 2013, the creator traveled to San Francisco for a narrative about intercourse employees who thought of themselves Silicon Valley’s “different entrepreneurs” — a gaggle from “the world’s oldest occupation benefiting from the brand new cash pouring into the world’s latest occupation,” she writes.
Kitty Stryker, a social media marketer by day and prostitute by night time, instructed Segall that when a brand new startup within the Bay Space was doing particularly effectively, she’d be visited recurrently by their workers — lots of whom weren’t shy about sharing how they received their riches.
“After which they may falter,” Stryker stated, “and then you definately’ll see a bunch of individuals from a unique startup.”
The escorts weren’t simply benefiting from the inflow of huge spenders—they had been going out of their solution to goal them.
One other madam instructed Segall that she made certain her secure of prostitutes wore “Recreation
of Thrones underwear” and lingerie adorned with phrases like “Winter is Coming” and “Geeks Make Higher Lovers,” particularly when promoting their companies on websites like MyRedBook and Craigslist, as a result of it “appealed to nerdy guys flush with startup inexperienced,” she instructed Segall.
Many intercourse employees took benefit of the innovations created by their clientele.
Segall met one prostitute who recurrently used Sq., a cell fee app designed by Twitter CEO Jack Dorsey, for extra discreet compensation from her johns.
“This most likely wasn’t what Jack had in thoughts,” Segall thought, recalling a coffee-shop interview the place Dorsey first instructed her about his ambitions for Sq..
“I file it underneath a unique enterprise identify,” the unnamed prostitute defined to Segall. “So far as Sq. is aware of, it’s a consulting enterprise.”
Not all the intimacy in Silicon Valley was being charged by the hour. In 2015, Segall discovered of a brand new app known as Secret, constructed by a former Sq. engineer, that permit customers anonymously “share secrets and techniques.” With a little bit snooping, Segall discovered that many distinguished Silicon Valley entrepreneurs had been polyamorous — that means, they’d a number of romantic relationships with each women and men.
Due to buddies who vouched for her, Segall was quickly assembly individuals like Sydney, an engineer at a significant tech firm who was in 4 relationships : with two girls, a person (her fiancé), and an open slot for anyone who occurred to catch her consideration.
Sydney defined how love could possibly be “hacked” within the “similar manner conventional industries had been upended by individuals who thought exterior the traces,” writes Segall. “If entrepreneurs might hack transportation, i.e. Uber, why not hack the idea of conventional relationships?”
Individuals in tech “have increased appetites for threat,” Sydney defined to justify her conduct. “Opening up your relationship is actually dangerous in an identical manner that beginning an organization is actually dangerous.”
Segall additionally stumbled upon an lively swingers’ group, with weekly intercourse events the place little was left to the creativeness. She managed to safe an invitation from Ralph, the pseudonym of a former tech entrepreneur who offered his first firm for $5 million, to “Silicon Valley’s premier intercourse get together.”
“I’d discovered that 4,000 individuals round Silicon Valley had been on his mailing listing,” writes Segall. “Many had been startup workers, software program engineers and enterprise capitalists.”
Visitors checked into the get together with an iPad, utilizing software program that Ralph bragged was
designed by “the identical man who constructed Oracle.”
Upon arriving on the get together, she made small discuss with {couples} she acknowledged from their tech careers — there was a lady who labored at Google, and an engineer who constructed supercomputers — and found how simply they agreed to speak in regards to the swinging way of life.
“I bear in mind once we slept with one other couple and high-fived after,” shared a lady wearing a Catholic schoolgirl outfit, whereas her husband, an worker at Sq., blushed.
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Upstairs on the half was the “Magic Carpet F–okay Area,” a room carpeted in mattresses with pink sheets and blue pillows.
“That’s the place I noticed him — effectively, the again of him,” Segall writes. A enterprise capitalist she’d had a cordial however unmemorable dialog earlier within the night was now “on his knees, bare, a large multicolored tattoo on his decrease again, thrusting forwards and backwards.”
